The aroma of fine tobacco, the clinking of glasses, the murmur of conversation – these were the familiar sounds of Omerta Cigar Lounge in Oklahoma City. It was where I went to unwind, to share a laugh with friends, to escape the daily grind. But something remarkable happened within those smoke-filled walls. We weren’t just enjoying cigars; we were forging bonds of brotherhood. We were the “Omerta Masons,” even before we knew what that truly meant.
It all started with two incredible guys, Joe Goenaga and Tim Carpenter. They were the catalysts, bringing together a diverse group of men from all walks of life. We’d gather on Friday nights, sharing stories, offering support, and sometimes even having an Oklahoma Past Grand Master drop in to share his wisdom! Those nights became our therapy, a space where we could be vulnerable and connect on a deeper level.
And we’re still going strong! If you’re a Mason, or even just curious about Freemasonry, come join us at Omerta Cigar Co. in Oklahoma City. We usually gather around 7:00 PM on Fridays, and we’d love to share a cigar and conversation with you.
You see, my path to Freemasonry wasn’t a typical one. It was intertwined with the scent of cedar and leather and deeply rooted in my wife Jana’s experiences. Jana is a Shriners kid. Growing up, the Shriners were like family to her. She’d often say, “Hey, you should look into joining the Shriners!” I’d nod and smile, not really understanding what that meant. Over time, the idea faded into the background until those fateful nights at Omerta, where I overheard conversations about the Shriners, sparking a renewed interest. (Jana has some incredible stories about her parents driving her down to Shreveport for treatment, but that’s a story for another day!)
Honestly, I walked into Freemasonry with no real expectations. All I knew was that I wanted to be a Shriner – to give back to the organization that had done so much for Jana. I had no idea you needed to be a Master Mason first! So, I embarked on a Perpetual Pathway to Master Mason, eager to join the Shriners as quickly as possible.
But something shifted during my time in Blue Lodge. I discovered the heart of Freemasonry, the core values and lessons that underpin everything else. I found myself drawn to the rituals, the symbolism, and the camaraderie. Now, as Junior Warden for Mustang Lodge #407, I even get to write and deliver educational lessons for my brothers! It’s been an incredible journey of growth and self-discovery. I’ve come to realize that without a strong Blue Lodge foundation, there are no Shriners, no Scottish Rite, no Grotto – none of it. We all have a responsibility to support our Blue Lodges, the bedrock of our fraternity.
Since then, I’ve delved into the rich tapestry of Masonic traditions. I’ve joined the Scottish Rite, where the symbolism and philosophy continue to challenge and inspire me, and I’ve embraced the York Rite, with its captivating degrees and historical significance. Currently, I’m a 32nd Degree Scottish Rite Mason at the Valley of Guthrie and a member of the Chapter of Royal Arch Masons, Council of Cryptic Masons, and the Commandery of Knights Templar.
But my Masonic journey isn’t just about titles and degrees. It’s about the friendships I’ve formed, the lessons I’ve learned, the opportunity to make a difference and making myself a better man. I also dedicate my time as Secretary for both the Oklahoma City Grotto (SINBAD) and the Free Runners Masonic Order (FRMO) F5 Chapter, and I’m proud to be part of the IT group for the Oklahoma City India Shriners.
The Omerta Masons, that initial spark of brotherhood from the cigar lounge, continues to burn bright. We’ve welcomed 18 new Masons into our fraternity – and it’s been amazing to see how many different lodges they represent. It’s a testament to the universality of Freemasonry, its ability to bring together men from diverse backgrounds and unite them in brotherhood. And we’re always eager to share a cigar and conversation with those curious about Freemasonry.
As the great Masonic author Albert Pike once wrote, “What we have done for ourselves alone dies with us; what we have done for others and the world remains and is immortal.” This is the essence of Freemasonry, and it’s a journey I’m honored to be on.
